Four Mile an Hour Walking on Peace Path of Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Theology Review Article

Authors

  • Bora Phan Peace Family and Development Organization, and BMU University Board , Cambodia

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.54536/ari.v3i2.5932

Keywords:

Community Ties, Forgiveness, Peace Path, Reconciliation

Abstract

This review article explores the concept of "Four Mile an Hour Walking" as a guiding metaphor for peacebuilding, drawing on biblical concepts of forgiveness and reconciliation. This notion encourages taking your time while engaging with neighbors, caregivers, and community members in order to create stronger ties based on empathy and compassion. "Sword into the sheath" is a metaphor that highlights the transformational potential of forgiveness and signifies the transition from conflict to dialogue. Drawing on biblical teachings, the essay illustrates how God's vision of peace inspires people to choose restorative and nonviolent methods in their interactions. The findings indicate that adopting a deliberate, introspective approach to relationships has two advantages: it fosters a culture of peace and increases community resilience. Caregivers are better equipped to promote group reconciliation, strengthen community ties, and assist in healing when they integrate these spiritual ideas. Ultimately, this essay promotes a route to peace that acknowledges both personal and societal wounds while actively seeking atonement through empathy and understanding.

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2025-11-21

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Four Mile an Hour Walking on Peace Path of Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Theology Review Article. (2025). Applied Research and Innovation, 3(2), 40-48. https://doi.org/10.54536/ari.v3i2.5932